For Kayla Jenecker, the number 42 represents pain changed into purpose.

Her sister Celita was bullied by 42 people and this left an impact on the family and inspired them to stand up for children who are bullied.

Now Kayla is running to 42 schools to raise R100 000 for 42 Unbreakable, an anti-bullying non-profit company.

The story behind the run

Seeing what her sister endured made Kayla realise that she carried the same pain.

“I knew we couldn’t change the past, but we could help shape a better future,” she said.

She started asking how their story could help someone else.

“It’s healing because every life we impact is proof that something good can come from even the most difficult experiences,” she said.

Kayla said she believes God does not waste pain.

“He can use our greatest struggles to make the greatest difference in the lives of others.”

Her prayer is that every child will know that they are valued, loved, and that no matter what they face, they are unbreakable.

Fundraising target

The funds raised will help 42 Unbreakable take its programme to more schools.

“We want to move beyond simply talking about bullying. We want to equip communities with the tools to prevent it, address it, and create safer environments for children,” said Kayla.

The funds will help provide school visits and awareness programmes, workshops and life skills sessions, support and counselling for bullied learners, resources and materials for schools, and community outreach and campaigns.

Kayla is asking businesses to partner with the campaign.

“When you support 42 Unbreakable, you are not just supporting a campaign. You are investing in the future of our children,” she said.

Every bit helps

She said that while some people may think a small donation does not make a difference, every great movement is built through small acts of kindness.

“One brick may seem small, but many bricks can build a home. The same applies to this campaign,” she said.

Signs to watch for

Sometimes children do not have the words to express what they are experiencing, so Kayla advised parents to pay attention to changes in behaviour.

Signs may include suddenly not wanting to go to school, withdrawing from family or friends, changes in mood, losing confidence, changes in sleeping or eating patterns, unexplained injuries, or becoming unusually quiet.

One of the most important things parents can do is create an environment where their child feels safe to talk. Listen without judgement, take their feelings seriously, and remind them that they are not alone, she said.

A message to children

To children experiencing bullying, Kayla said: “I want you to know that you matter. Your life has value. The things people say about you do not define who you are,” she said. “I know bullying can make you feel alone, but please remember that you are never alone. There are people who care about you, people who want to listen, and people who want to help.”

She encourages children to speak up.

“Don’t be afraid to speak up. Your voice matters. Your story matters. The difficult season you are facing right now is not the end of your story.”

“Always remember: you are stronger than the words spoken against you. You are worthy, you are loved, and you are unbreakable.”

For more information or to support the campaign, visit 42 Unbreakable’s website.

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