Why did you decide to enter Miss South Africa 2023, and why do you deserve to win this title?
After entering Miss South Africa in 2020 and not progressing to the top 16 I thought my dream of becoming Miss South Africa was over. But life works in weird and wonderful ways. When I was in Grade 3 we had an entrepreneur day at school and Claudia Henkel, who was Miss South Africa 2004, was the celebrity guest. I was in awe of her beauty and aura, and my mom still tells the story that I didn’t stop talking about my encounter for weeks. Since then I have always dreamt of being that inspiration to other little girls. Miss South Africa is so much more than a pageant. It is a platform that goes beyond; it celebrates inspiring individuals who were born to uplift and empower others. No-one deserves to be Miss South Africa; holding the title is a privilege and should always be treated as one. I believe I would be an inspiring Miss South Africa because of what I stand for. Winning Survivor South Africa was one of my greatest accomplishments, and it equipped me with invaluable life lessons that I would be honoured to share with fellow South Africans, young and old.
What do you think is the most important part of a beauty pageant?
While physical appearance and talent are important, I believe the most significant aspect is one’s dedication to service and the ability to inspire others. A Miss South Africa’s role extends beyond the glitz and glamour of the stage, as we are expected to be ambassadors for our communities and causes. The service to others and the inspiration we provide are the most crucial components of a beauty pageant. It’s not about saying you’re going to make a difference; it’s about living selflessly and actually doing it!
What qualities should a woman possess to make a notable difference in the world?
I believe one of the most important qualities is determination, as it enables a woman to persist through challenges and overcome obstacles. Another vital quality is empathy, which allows her to understand the needs and struggles of others and work towards solutions that benefit all. Additionally, creativity and innovation can help a woman to find new and effective ways to solve problems. Courage is also an essential quality, as it allows a woman to take risks and stand up for what she believes in, even in the face of adversity. Finally, leadership skills are crucial to inspire and guide others towards a shared goal.
Why do you believe that the Miss South Africa pageant should be more inclusive and representative of society?
The Miss South Africa pageant, as a prominent platform, has a responsibility to reflect the diversity and richness of South African society. By being more inclusive and representative, the pageant can serve as a powerful tool for promoting acceptance and understanding across different cultures, races and ethnicities. It can also help to challenge and break harmful stereotypes and beauty standards that exclude or marginalise certain groups. Ultimately, a more inclusive and representative Miss South Africa pageant can inspire a new generation of young people who feel seen, heard and valued for who they are, regardless of their background or appearance.
Tell us about your family.
My husband, Ryno Eksteen, thinks I am courageous and a go-getter and always has my back. It is critically important choosing a life-partner that always has your best interests at heart and supports you. I couldn’t have asked for better! My family is wild and wonderful. I have been blessed with parents who have given me unconditional love and support my whole life and have made me the strong and passionate woman I am today. My father, Trevor, is retired and we share a love for cards and Formula 1. My mother’s name is Marinda, but we call her “Handy Mandy”, as there is nothing she cannot fix or make. My elder sister Danielle lives in Canada with her husband and three boys, and is currently doing a teaching course. My elder brother Peter is a guest-farm manager and my younger sister Sarah lives in the Netherlands with her fiancé. I am truly blessed with a family that oozes love, laughter and compassion. We are extremely close-knit and have a family tradition of Sunday lunch together.
How are you playing your part in your community and in South Africa?
Since winning Survivor I have been fortunate enough to be a guest speaker at various schools and sports teams to share my pearls of wisdom with the youth. I have been involved in a community project called Habitat for Humanity, where we helped build a home for a less privileged family and I also took part in outreach programmes where I coached hockey to less privileged children.
How do you define success?
I define success in terms of personal growth, fulfilment, and happiness. Setting goals that align with my values and passions, working hard to achieve them and celebrating their progress along the way. Success is not just about achieving specific outcomes, but also about cultivating a positive and empowering relationship with myself. Ultimately, success for me is self-love and living authentically and creating a life that feels meaningful and purposeful.
Five short facts about yourself?
1. I won Survivor South Africa Immunity Island.
2. I am a nature and outdoor lover and walked the Camino Trail in 2018.
3. I wanted to become a Formula 1 driver when I was in matric and used to go go-cart racing by myself on weekends.
4. I am married to the love of my life. My husband used to play rugby for the Stormers and the Cheetahs.
5. I am terrified of the ocean and sharks!
What is your message to young girls and young women in South Africa?
As a woman who prides herself on resilience and perseverance, my message to young girls and young women in South Africa is this: You are capable of achieving great things despite any challenges that may come your way. It’s important to believe in yourself and your abilities, and to never give up on your dreams. No matter what obstacles you may face, remember that you have the strength and resilience to overcome them. Seek out support from those around you, whether it be family, friends, or mentors, and never be afraid to ask for help when you need it. You may face unique challenges, but know that you are not alone because there is a whole community of women who have overcome similar struggles and are there to support and encourage you. Stay focused on your goals, work hard and never lose sight of your worth and potential. The road to success may not be easy, but with perseverance and determination you can achieve anything you set your mind to. Remember to always stay true to yourself and your values and to use your voice to advocate for yourself and others. You are capable of making a difference in the world and I have no doubt that you will go on to achieve great things.
