THORNHILL – History was made in Kouga on 29 August, when the Kouga Municipality proudly hosted the first-ever StrongHer International Award ceremony in South Africa, celebrating unstoppable women who uplift and inspire their communities.
The honour of being crowned the inaugural Kouga winner went to Ziyanda Kilimani (28), whose remarkable impact and dedication captured the essence of the award.
She was joined by four outstanding finalists, Charlotte Visage, Lynn Breytenbach, Berna Biggs, and Bonita Hope Fourie, each recognised for their extraordinary contributions to the community.
The award represents a groundbreaking collaboration between the City of Birmingham, Alabama, and Kouga Municipality, with Kouga chosen to launch this global initiative locally.
For the past seven years, the award has been celebrated in Birmingham, honouring women who lead with strength and purpose.
Now, Kouga women have been given the same international platform.
Kouga Executive Mayor, Hattingh Bornman, said they not only celebrated women, but they also elevated everyday heroes who are quietly changing lives.
“This award was about shining a spotlight on those who do not look for it but deserve it. Kouga is full of powerful, purpose-driven women, and now the world knows it too,” said Bornman.
For Kilimani, a mother from Thornhill, the recognition came as a complete shock.
“I was speechless. I couldn’t believe that my efforts had been recognised on such a prestigious platform,” said Kilimani.
Her journey to this moment began years ago when she established the Thornhill Uprising Stars Football Club, driven by a desire to address what she saw as society’s neglect of young men.
“I believe that society has forgotten about boys while prioritising girls, and I decided to be a game changer. Boys are suffering emotionally because they are being told that men do not cry, which has left them with anger issues,” said Kilimani.
She said that her soccer club, therefore, serves a dual purpose, developing athletic talent while building character.
“I wanted to create opportunities for young people in Thornhill and take boys off the streets to create a safer community,” said Kilimani.
Beyond soccer, Kilimani runs “A Dream Come True M.D by LadyZee,” an initiative that assists less fortunate matriculants throughout the Kouga region with their matric farewell celebrations.
“With the little money I have, I bless two less fortunate matriculants, a girl and a boy, covering everything needed for their matric dance,” said Kilimani.
She said that she visits the school of her choice to choose the lucky matriculants, then visits their homes to meet with parents or guardians.
As a teenage mother, Kilimani faced significant challenges but refused to let them define her future.
“Teenage pregnancy didn’t end my future nor stop me from achieving anything I want in this life,” said Kilimani.
Her resilience clearly made an impact on those closest to her, with her 12-year-old son, Iminathi, nominating her for the award.
He described her as “not only his mother but a mother to the nation.”
The heartfelt nomination deeply moved Kilimani.
“It brings tears to my eyes. His words mean the world to me,” said Kilimani.
“We grew up like brother and sister. Iminathi is like me; he shares, and he has a beautiful heart,” said Kilimani.
Reflecting on her recognition, she sees it as more than a personal achievement.
“This recognition is not just about me; it’s about the community that has supported me every step of the way,” said Kilimani.
“I’m still in disbelief. How can a girl from the dusty streets of Thornhill receive this big international recognition? But it’s God’s doing.
“This award is for all the young girls and young women who are my peers. This is proof that you can overcome anything in this life.”
For women facing similar challenges that she faced, she said she wants them to learn that with determination, hard work and resilience, they can overcome any obstacles and achieve their dreams.
“Start with what you’re passionate about, and don’t be afraid to take that first step. Surround yourself with like-minded individuals, and remember that every small action can lead to a significant impact,” said Kilimani.
Looking ahead, Kilimani envisions creating a legacy of empowered young women who are confident, resilient, and determined to make a difference in their communities.
She further reminds mothers who balance their own children with community care that they are not alone.
“You’re not alone. Your work is invaluable, and your love and dedication are shaping the next generation. Ask God to give you all the strength and wisdom that will be needed,” said Kilimani.
The significance of bringing this international award to South Africa is not lost on Kilimani.
“It’s an honour to be recognised globally for my contributions. It shows that my work can transcend borders and inspire others,” said Kilimani.
“I’d like to express my gratitude to everyone who has supported me on this journey. Let’s continue to uplift and empower each other, and let’s keep making a difference in our communities.”
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