Gedink jy kan Valentynsoggend gou by \u2019n supermark inhardloop en \u2019n kaartjie vir jou geliefde koop? Dink weer as dit vir jou belangrik is watter indruk jy daardeur wek.<\/p>\n
Standard <\/i>het \u2019n groep vroue gevra om te s\u00ea wat hulle dink van die geskenke wat mans op di\u00e9 liefdesdag gee (en natuurlik watter indruk daardie geskenke van die mans skep).<\/p>\n
Die eerste re\u00ebl is klaarblyklik om nie n\u00edks te gee nie \u2013 al het julle vooraf besluit die dag is net \u2019n \u201cgeldmaakstorie\u201d en dit beteken nie vir julle veel nie. \u201cOm die een of ander rede is dit nie lekker vir \u2019n vrou om g\u00e9\u00e9n spesiale aandag op Valentynsdag te kry nie,\u201d s\u00ea Madr\u00e9. \u201cMy k\u00earel, soos baie ander, glo dat die dag net \u2019n geldmaakstorie is, maar t\u00f3g.\u201d<\/p>\n
Die plastiekrose wat in hul hordes in winkels te sien is, moet liefs vermy word. Vroue dink nie net dit is cheezy<\/i> en goedkoop nie, maar dit wek ook maklik die indruk dat die man nie werklik vir die meisie omgee nie en net iets gekoop het omdat hy \u201cmoes\u201d.<\/p>\n
Feitlik dieselfde geld vir klein ornamentjies met I love you<\/i>-boodskappies op, hoewel dit nie heeltemal so maklik as \u2019n belediging beskou word nie. \u201cDie man is nie so-o-o oorspronklik nie,\u201d s\u00ea Sippora, \u201cmaar probeer ten minste.\u201d<\/p>\n
Vars blomme, daarteenoor, is altyd welkom. \u201cBlomme is mooi en dit laat my net so mooi voel,\u201d s\u00ea Marissa. En as hy dit by die werk laat aflewer, is dit v\u00e9\u00e9l beter. \u201cMiskien is dit net daardie openbare verklaring van liefde wat s\u00ea: \u2018This is my woman and I am proud of having her in my life<\/i>!\u2019 \u201d s\u00ea Riana.<\/p>\n
Marissa meen hoewel juwele eerder vir herdenkings en verjaarsdae gehou moet word en ietwat te veel is om op Valentynsdag te gee, laat dit haar tog voel of die man dink sy is mooi en die moeite werd om \u201cversier\u201d te word. Sippora, daarenteen, waarsku dat dit die vrou kan laat dink die man wil wys dat hy geld het.<\/p>\n
Boonop m\u00f3\u00e9t hy seker wees dat hy die meisie se smaak ken as hy juwele wil aanskaf. Hy wil haar nie in die ongemaklike posisie plaas om iets waarvan sy glad nie hou nie te m\u00f3\u00e9t dra om sy gevoelens te beskerm nie. <\/p>\n
\u201cDie gedagte word altyd waardeer,\u201d s\u00ea Riana, \u201cmaar die verkeerde geskenk of gebaar laat meer dikwels \u2019n gevoel van teleurstelling en \u2019n mens kan amper eerder verkies om niks te kry nie as om die verkeerde ding te kry.\u201d<\/p>\n
Juis daarom is die een ding wat al die vroue se harte warmer laat klop \u2019n teken dat hy werklik aan haar gedink het terwyl hy die geskenk gekoop of gekry het, en goed genoeg oplet om haar smaak te ken. <\/p>\n
Feitlik alles (behalwe plastiekblomme) sal volgens die vroue in die haak wees as dit \u201cgoed gekies is\u201d.<\/p>\n
\u201cDie beste geskenk of gebaar is iets wat vir jou wys dat jou geliefde aan jou gedink het toe hy dit gekry of beplan het,\u201d s\u00ea Riana.<\/p>\n
\u201cNet die feit dat hy moeite doen, soos \u2019n roos of \u2019n blom voor jy werk toe gaan, \u2019n love letter <\/i>in jou broeksak of sommer \u2019n stay-at-home dinner<\/i>,\u201d s\u00ea Sippora. \u201cSo ietsie wat s\u00ea: \u2018Haai, ek is baie lief vir jou en jy laat my hart bollemakiesie slaan.\u2019 Dit hoef nie iets fancy <\/i>of groot te wees nie; die kleiner dingetjies beteken soms meer!\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDit is die opregtheid van die gebaar wat tel,\u201d s\u00ea Anja. \u201cAl kry ek \u2019n vars geplukte blom saam met \u2019n koppie koffie in die bed, en dit word opreg bedoel, is dit meer as genoeg.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWeet jy, as hy net die inisiatief neem, sal dit waardeer word. Al moet ek die geskenkie gaan omruil,\u201d meen \u2019n ander vrou.<\/p>\n
\u201cMy man is nie baie sterk daarop ingestel nie, maar so een keer in \u2019n dekade of so gaan hy uit sy pad uit om moeite te doen,\u201d s\u00ea Luisa. \u201cHy het een jaar \u2019n fotograaf gekry en \u2019n swart pak aangetrek, en meer foto\u2019s laat neem soos wat hy die klere laat waai het. Die laaste foto was van hom in \u2019n boxer<\/i>. O, en toe het hy die foto\u2019s in die huis versteek en ek het \u2019n skattejag gedoen. Dit was baie cool<\/i>!\u201d<\/p>\n
En hoewel \u2019n egte Valentynskaartjie wat \u2019n mens in die winkel kan koop goed genoeg is, is \u2019n handgeskrewe briefie met woorde wat uit die hart uit kom volgens die vroue die nommer-een-geskenk op Valentynsdag! <\/p>\n
Luisa som dit op: \u201cWoorde maak baie meer saak as \u2019n fancy <\/i>kaartjie. \u2019n Wit A4-papier met mooi woorde daarop beteken vir my baie meer as geskenke, duur rose en juwele.\u201d <\/p>\n
Madr\u00e9 stem saam: \u201cVolgens my beteken \u2019n handgeskrewe brief baie meer as \u2019n kaartjie, plastiekblomme, regte blomme, teddiebeertjies of goetertjies wat \u2019n mens by Cardies koop, want daai briefie kan \u2019n mens nie koop nie en is net vir jou.\u201d<\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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