\u201cIn ons land het kinders so jonk soos sewe jaar al hul eie lewe geneem.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u00f3 s\u00ea Dalene du Plessis, \u2019n plaaslike sielkundige berader, wat in Vredenburg en in die Bergrivier-munisipale gebied praktiseer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In Suid-Afrika is 9% van alle sterftes onder tieners weens selfmoord, en dit neem toe, waarsku die Suid-Afrikaanse Depressie- en Angs-groep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Volgens die nuutste navorsing het selfmoordpogings onder Amerikaanse kinders tussen die ouderdomme van 10 tot 12 jaar van 2000-2020 meer as vervierdubbel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Du Plessis s\u00ea dit is uiters belangrik dat ouers en onderwysers nie kinders se emosionele welstand ignoreer of afskeep nie, aangesien dit ernstige gevolge kan h\u00ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cHou altyd die kommunikasiekanale tussen jou en jou kind oop. Jou kind moet altyd die vrymoedigheid h\u00ea om oor enigiets wat hulle pla, met jou te praat,\u201d stel Du Plessis voor. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sy s\u00ea as \u2019n goeie grondslag van kommunikasie met \u2019n kind gel\u00ea word terwyl hulle jonk is, sal hulle wanneer hulle ouer word, makliker oor ernstiger sake teenoor hul ouers oopmaak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cDis belangrik om te weet dat kinders soms uitlatings maak soos \u2018ek haat my lewe\u2019 of \u2018ek wil nie meer lewe nie\u2019, maar dit beteken nie noodwendig dat \u2019n kind sy of haar eie lewe wil neem nie,\u201d verduidelik sy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cTog is dit ongelooflik belangrik om hierdie uitlatings nooit ligtelik op te neem nie. Tree eerder vroe\u00ebr as later op. Dit kan nooit skade doen om jou kind na \u2019n sielkundige of berader te neem nie. Dit kan hom net goed doen. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sy s\u00ea kinders kan weens verskeie redes depressief raak, maar as hy of sy in \u2019n liefdevolle en veilige huishouding grootword, kan dit moontlik boeliegedrag wees wat hom be\u00efnvloed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201c\u2019n Kind wat geboelie word se selfbeeld ly daaronder.\u201dDepressie-gevaartekens:<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Wees oplettend vir \u2019n skielike verandering in gedrag, <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 buierigheid en huilerigheid,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 skoolpunte wat agteruitgaan,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 slaan ag op \u2019n onderwyser se terugvoering,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 jou kind maak afbrekende uitlatings oor hom of haarself,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 s\u00ea sy word by die skool geboelie,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 haar eetgewoontes of gewig verander dramaties oor \u2019n kort tyd,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 jou kind wil nie meer deelneem aan aktiwiteite wat voorheen aan hom vreugde verskaf het nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Jou kind ly reeds aan ander geestesgesondheidsuitdagings soos aandaggebrek-hiperaktiwiteitsversteuring (ADHD) wat hom meer vatbaar vir depressie maak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Du Plessis se raad:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 Kommunikeer met jou kind,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 bou \u2019n goeie kommunikasie-grondslag met jou kind terwyl hy of sy nog klein is,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 hou dop vir bogenoemde simptome,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 luister en hoor jou kind,<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 gee erkenning aan sy of haar emosies<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2013 neem jou kind eerder vroe\u00ebr as later na \u2019n berader.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Skakel Du Plessis by 082 672 9008.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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