\u2019n Diep, donker gat van depressie is besig om haar in te sluk. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sy het in haar alleenheid begin drink en sy dreig nou gereeld om op te gee; om nie met die verkragtingsaak deur te druk nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sy weet nie of sy meer kans sien nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Maar sy weet ook haar aanvallers sal dan skotvry daarvan afkom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Maandag, drie dae n\u00e1 die 16 Dae van Aktivisme vir Geen Geweld teen Vroue en Kinders landswyd begin het, het \u2019n vrou wat glo die seksuele teiken van twee mans by \u2019n kroeg geword het weer deur haar vriend na Weslander<\/span> uitgereik. Die koerant het oorspronklik op 27 Oktober oor haar beweerde verkragting in Saldanha berig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Volgens hierdie berig het die vrou in September saam met \u2019n vriendin by \u2019n kroeg gekuier, maar die vriendin het besluit om vroe\u00ebr huis toe te gaan. Die vrou het toe alleen saam met ander mense in die kroeg gekuier. Twee mans met wie sy vlugtig by die kuierplek gesels het, het haar agtervolg terwyl sy huis toe gestap het. Hulle het glo ges\u00ea hulle stap saam met haar vir beskerming. Nadat hulle haar oortuig het om nog \u2019n drankie saam met hulle by \u2019n huis daar naby te drink, is die deur glo gesluit en het albei mans, na bewering teen haar wil, met haar seks gehad. Volgens haar vertelling het sy sonder haar onderklere uit die huis gevlug toe sy die eerste kans kry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Die vrou se vriend het Maandag aan Weslander<\/span> vertel sy kry weens di\u00e9 trauma emosioneel baie swaar en is erg depressief.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Die verkragtingsondersoek vorder volgens die vrou baie stadig. Die vriend het aan Weslander<\/span> ges\u00ea \u2019n nuwe ondersoekbeampte is sedert die publikasie van die vorige berig aangestel om die saak te hanteer, maar nie veel meer het daarna gebeur nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kapt. Johan Horn het in Oktober die saaknommer aan Weslander<\/span> bevestig en ges\u00ea die ondersoek duur voort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Horn het ook ges\u00ea sake soos di\u00e9 is baie moeilik om te ondersoek en kan dikwels jare lank voortsleep, wat tot groot frustrasie kan lei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Die howe steun baie swaar op forensiese DNS-bewyse om \u2019n aanvaller positief met \u2019n verkragting te verbind. Die probleem is dat die polisie soms langer as \u2019n jaar op forensiese uitslae van monsters wag weens die forensiese laboratorium se geweldige agterstand met werk. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cIn die afwesigheid van DNS-bewyse is dit nog moeiliker om \u2019n skuldige aan die pen te laat ry.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Volgens Horn is dit \u2019n hartseer feit dat sake soms nie verder vorder nie, omdat \u2019n staatsaanklaer dikwels sal bevind dat die bewyse \u201cte dun\u201d is om dit suksesvol deur te voer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dit moet egter so gedoen word omdat die staatsaanklaer weet dat sommige sake heelwaarskynlik vir \u2019n onredelike lang tyd sal sloer en dit bykomende trauma vir die slagoffers veroorsaak terwyl kosbare tyd en hulpbronne vermors word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Die vrou se vriend s\u00ea haar aanvaller se pa probeer nou haar reputasie skade aandoen en het \u2019n boodskap rondgestuur waarin hy beweer die slagoffer is geldgierig en het die saak gemaak om sy seun af te pers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Die vrou 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