Om \u2019n ma te wees, is onder gewone omstandighede ingewikkeld. Wanneer \u2019n vrou skielik sonder \u2019n broodwinner en maat is, kan dinge lelik skeefloop. Dit hang alles af van die vrou se ingesteldheid, haar grootwordjare en haar uitkyk op die lewe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Soos in Dolf de Bruyn (39), bestuurder van die Hoedjiesbaai-hotel, se geval, het die enkelma daarin gefaal om haar kind teen die bose te beskerm. Sy het self toegesien dat haar kind uitgelewer word aan monsters wat sy onskuld gesteel het. Sy was ni\u00e9 die naam ma werd nie, al het haar man weggeloop en haar met die kinders gelos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u00f3 beland ander ma\u2019s oornag in dieselfde bootjie \u2013 hetsy dit nou die man se toedoen is, en of moordenaars die pa uit die gesin se lewe wegruk \u2013 soos in die geval van Christo Basson (36) van Saldanha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u00f3 het \u2019n Vredenburgse enkelma ook nie geweet die man met wie sy in \u2019n verhouding was, eendag haar twee peuters wreedaardig sou vermoor nie. Derick Kalmeyer (54) is vandeesweek twee keer lewenslange gevangenisstraf opgel\u00ea vir die dubbele moord en aanranding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Enkelma\u2019s moet dubbeld seker maak oor wie hulle in hul kinders se lewe toelaat. Die uiteinde van hul besluite kan lewenslange letsels laat, of \u2013 soos in Faith en Conroy Adams se geval \u2013 hulle hul lewe kos.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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