Tradisionele manlikheid vereis dat mans emosioneel sterk en gehard moet wees.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hoewel baie mans by hierdie geslagsrolle baat vind, plaas dit tog onnodige verwagtinge op mans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hierdie verwagtinge kan hul lewe en di\u00e9 rondom hulle negatief be\u00efnvloed. In di\u00e9 sin kan tradisionele manlikheid toksies raak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
By Cape Town Drug Counselling Centre (CTDCC) Atlantis, het ons opgelet wat die impak van tradisionele manlikheid op volwasse, sowel as adolessente mans is. \u2019n Simptoom van moontlike toksiese manlikheid is die huiwering om hulp te aanvaar. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die hedendaagse gesegde som di\u00e9 huiwering as volg op: \u201cElke man het sy trots.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In hierdie geval kan trots tot gevaarlike uitkomstes lei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dit is soms moeilik vir mans om te aanvaar dat hulle wel afhanklik is van ondersteuning van gesondheidspersoneel, ondersteuningsgroepe en selfs familielede om te herstel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die eerste stap in die herstelproses is om te erken dat jou dwelmgebruik probleme in jou lewe veroorsaak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ons ervaar dit kan soms moeilik wees om te aanvaar dat die gebruik wel \u2019n probleem is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dit laat die gebruiker voel hy het as man gefaal, want die samelewing verwag \u201c \u2019n man is sterk\u201d soos tradisionele manlikheid dit voorskryf. Selfs pa\u2019s kan voel hulle faal hul kinders. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ouer boeties kan voel hulle is nie \u2019n goeie rolmodel vir hul sibbe nie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dit veroorsaak \u2019n bose kringloop van tragedie waar manlike dwelmgebruikers hopeloos voel en dan weer gebruik. Hopeloosheid en magteloosheid gaan gepaard met mekaar \u2013 veral wanneer die manlike gebruiker soms gestremd is of selfs wanneer sy gesondheid verswak het.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die manlike gebruiker word gereeld herinner aan die rolle wat hy nie meer vervul nie, soos om te werk. Tradisionele manlikheid verwag mans moet werk en na hul gesin omsien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Wanneer hierdie verwagtinge nie nagekom word nie, kan dit lei tot \u2019n soeke na beheer, en dit word soms verkry deur dwelms te gebruik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die CTDCC-span sien gereeld mans wat met die siening \u201cmans wat emosioneel is, is swak\u201d worstel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Daar is dan \u2019n huiwering van mans om emosies te deel en om te s\u00ea wat hulle pla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die gevolg is dat manlike gebruikers hul emosies onderdruk. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dit dien dan as \u2019n moontlike \u201ctrigger\u201d vir misbruik of veroorsaak selfs misverstande in die huishouding as gevolg van uitbarstings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hierdie gedrag kan ook deur groepsdruk \u2013 veral in die geval van adolessente \u2013 onder vriende en selfs die samelewing vererger word. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mans kan soms verplig voel om dwelms te gebruik, omdat hul vriende gebruik of selfs begin gebruik as gevolg van kompetisie tussen vriende.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hulle word dan ook uitgedaag met woorde soos \u201cas jy nie gebruik nie is jy \u2019n sissie\u201d.. <\/span>Kontak gerus die Cape Town Drug Counselling Centre by 021 571 7180 vir verdere inligting.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Tradisionele manlikheid vereis dat mans emosioneel sterk en gehard moet wees.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_yoast_wpseo_linkdex":"","_yoast_wpseo_content_score":"","_yoast_wpseo_inclusive_language_score":"","_yoast_wpseo_is_cornerstone":"","_yoast_wpseo_canonical":"","_yoast_wpseo_opengraph-title":"","_yoast_wpseo_opengraph-description":"","_yoast_wpseo_opengraph-image":"","_yoast_wpseo_opengraph-image-id":"","_yoast_wpseo_twitter-title":"","_yoast_wpseo_twitter-description":"","_yoast_wpseo_twitter-image":"","_yoast_wpseo_twitter-image-id":"","newspack_ads_suppress_ads":false,"newspack_sponsor_sponsorship_scope":"","newspack_sponsor_native_byline_display":"inherit","newspack_sponsor_native_category_display":"inherit","newspack_sponsor_underwriter_style":"inherit","newspack_sponsor_underwriter_placement":"inherit","_crsspst_to_novanewscoza":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozabloemnewsexpress":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozacityvision":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozadistrictmailhelderberg":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozaeikestadnuus":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozahermanustimes":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozakomani-karoo":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozakougaexpress":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozamthathaexpress":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozanoordkaapbulletin":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozapaarlpost":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozapeexpress":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozapeoplespost":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozaswartlandgazette":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozatygerburger":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozaudexpress":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozavistanews":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozavrystaatkroon":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozaweslander":false,"_crsspst_to_novanewscozaworcesterstandard":false,"_EventAllDay":"","_EventTimezone":"","_EventStartDate":"","_EventEndDate":"","_EventStartDateUTC":"","_EventEndDateUTC":"","_EventShowMap":"","_EventShowMapLink":"","_EventURL":"","_EventCost":"","_EventCostDescription":"","_EventCurrencySymbol":"","_EventCurrencyCode":"","_EventCurrencyPosition":"","_EventDateTimeSeparator":"","_EventTimeRangeSeparator":"","_EventOrganizerID":"","_EventVenueID":"","_OrganizerEmail":"","_OrganizerPhone":"","_OrganizerWebsite":"","_VenueAddress":"","_VenueCity":"","_VenueCountry":"","_VenueProvince":"","_VenueState":"","_VenueZip":"","_VenuePhone":"","_VenueURL":"","_VenueStateProvince":"","_VenueLat":"","_VenueLng":"","_VenueShowMap":"","_VenueShowMapLink":"","_application":"","_batch_id":"","_company_name":"","_company_tagline":"","_company_twitter":"","_company_video":"","_company_website":"","_custom_id":"66aee12a-0a7b-4225-8c70-b1e7d1a40240","_EventDuration":"","_EventOrigin":"","_EventTimezoneAbbr":"","_featured":"","_filled":"","_job_expires":"","_job_location":"","_media_credit":"","_media_credit_url":"","_menu_item_menu_item_parent":"","_menu_item_object":"","_menu_item_object_id":"","_menu_item_target":"","_menu_item_type":"","_menu_item_url":"","_menu_item_xfn":"","_navis_media_can_distribute":"","_navis_media_credit_org":"","_OrganizerOrigin":"","_provider":"","_pum_built_in":"","_pum_default_theme":"","_pum_form_conversion_count":"","_remote_id":"","_remote_name":"","_remote_position":"","_report_frequency":"","_report_reference_dates":"","_send_attempts":"","_site_id":"","_sitemap_exclude":"","_sitemap_frequency":"","_sitemap_priority":"","_source_url":"","_subscription_period":"","_subscription_period_interval":"","_subscription_price":"","_tec_slr_enabled":"","_tec_slr_layout":"","_template_type":"","_ticket_end_date":"","_ticket_start_date":"","_tribe_aggregator_allow_multiple_organizers":"","_tribe_aggregator_content_type":"","_tribe_aggregator_file":"","_tribe_aggregator_finalized":"","_tribe_aggregator_hash":"","_tribe_aggregator_import_id":"","_tribe_aggregator_import_name":"","_tribe_aggregator_interactive":"","_tribe_aggregator_origin":"","_tribe_aggregator_post_status":"","_tribe_aggregator_preview":"","_tribe_aggregator_source_name":"","_tribe_aggregator_type":"","_tribe_default_ticket_provider":"","_tribe_hide_attendees_list":"","_tribe_rsvp_for_event":"","_tribe_ticket_capacity":"","_tribe_ticket_header":"","_tribe_ticket_show_description":"","_tribe_ticket_show_not_going":"","_tribe_ticket_version":"","_type":"","_VenueOrigin":"","_wp_attachment_context":"","_wp_attachment_image_alt":"","_wp_font_face_file":"","_wp_old_date":"","_yoast_wpseo_estimated-reading-time-minutes":"","_yoast_wpseo_focuskeywords":"","_yoast_wpseo_focuskw_text_input":"","_yoast_wpseo_keywordsynonyms":"","_yoast_wpseo_primary_block-catalog":"","_yoast_wpseo_primary_category":"","_yoast_wpseo_primary_job_listing_type":"","_yoast_wpseo_primary_nova_retailer":"","_yoast_wpseo_primary_publication":"","_yoast_wpseo_primary_tribe_events_cat":"","_yoast_wpseo_videositemap-duration":"","_yoast_wpseo_videositemap-rating":"","_menu_item_classes":[],"_tribe_modified_fields":[],"_wp_attachment_backup_sizes":[],"_wp_suggested_privacy_policy_content":[],"_yoast_post_redirect_info":[],"_yoast_wpseo_video_meta":[],"activation_date":"","archive_insertion_is_repeating":"","archive_insertion_posts_count":"","article_feature_media":"","article_feature_type":"","article_main_image_caption":"","article_media_icon":"","article_template":"","author_byline":"","background_color":"","block_editor":"","byline":"","cmplz_hide_cookiebanner":"","competition_end_date":"","contact_advertise_email":"","contact_advertise_phone":"","contact_editorial_email":"","contact_general_email":"","contact_general_phone":"","contact_office_hours":"","contact_physical_address":"","enabled":"","featured_image_custom_caption":"","featured_video_url":"","fields":"","font_body":"","font_header":"","frequency":"","headline":"","hide_border":"","icon":"","is_wp_suggestion":"","issuu_download_url":"","issuu_embed_url":"","language_version_url":"","large_border":"","name":"","nm_contact_name":"","nm_contact_number":"","nm_date_lost":"","no_overlay_background":"","node-url":"","obituary_born_date":"","obituary_died_date":"","obituary_memoriam_text":"","origin":"","overlay_color":"","overlay_opacity":"","overlay_size":"","placement":"","plural_label":"","post_author":"","post_id":"","post_language":"en","secret-key":"","sponsored_utm_campaign":"","sponsored_utm_content":"","sponsored_utm_medium":"","sponsored_utm_source":"","sponsored_utm_term":"","start_date":"","utm_suppression":"","video_embed_url":"","wp_pattern_sync_status":"","data_version":[],"enclosure":[],"pongrass_image":[],"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_newspack_byline_active":false,"_newspack_byline":"","newspack_content_restriction_is_exempt":false,"scaip_prevent_shortcode_addition":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"newspack_spnsrs_tax":[],"publication":[],"class_list":["post-46961","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"yoast_head":"\n