Kom ons wees eerlik, dit lyk soms asof die moderne mens vergeet het wat basiese goeie maniere behels. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Goeie maniere is soos \u2019n geheime bestanddeel in \u2019n sous \u2013<\/span> dit verbeter alles. Dit behels nie net \u2019n beleefde \u201casseblief\u201d en \u2019n \u201cdankie\u201d wat soos \u2019n warm kombersie voel nie. Dit is die klein gebare wat verseker dat mense dink jy is goed grootgemaak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Die jaar nader sy einde, so kom ons benut die geleentheid om ons maniere te herontdek. Waar begin ons? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Met die basiese dinge, natuurlik. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Wanneer jy iemand groet, kyk hulle in die o\u00eb. Manne, staan op wanneer jy groet en gee \u2019n stewige handdruk. Haal sommer daardie hoed af terwyl jy groet of bid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n As jy iemand geld skuld, betaal dit terug volgens ooreenkoms. Moenie skielik verdwyn soos \u2019n spook nie. Indien jy nie kan betaal nie, wees dapper genoeg om met die een vir wie jy skuld oor aangepaste bepalings te onderhandel. Jou eerlikheid en nederigheid laat jou jou goeie naam behou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Wanneer jy uitgeneem word vir ete, moenie die spyskaart misbruik om te toets hoe diep jou gasheer se sakke is nie. Kies iets gemiddeld, nie te goedkoop of te duur nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In die era van politieke korrektheid, wees \u2019n rebel. Hou die deur oop vir die mens agter jou, ongeag wie hulle is. As jy saam met \u2019n vriend in \u2019n Uber ry en hulle betaal, bied ten minste aan om jou deel by te dra; of s\u00ea (en bedoel dit) dat die betaling vir die volgende rit uit jou beursie sal kom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Om aandagtig te luister beteken meer as om net te wag vir jou beurt om te praat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n As jou grappies nie aanklank vind nie, verander die onderwerp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gee komplimente vryelik, maar hou kritiek vir private gesprekke. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Moenie ongevraagde kommentaar oor iemand se gewig of voorkoms lewer nie. As jy niks goeds te s\u00ea het nie, bly liewer stil.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Behandel almal met respek, van die skoonmaker tot die direkteur. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Wanneer jy met iemand praat, moenie met jou foon besig wees nie. Gee hulle jou volle aandag. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Gee raad slegs indien dit gevra word en moenie inmeng in ander se persoonlike sake nie, veral nie oor salaris, hul kinders of hul liefdeslewe nie. Moenie spog oor jou suksesse nie, en moet nie oor jou wonderlike kinders praat by mense wie se kinders dalk sukkel nie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Onthou, dit is die klein dinge wat saak maak, nie groot gebare nie. \u2019n Glimlag kos niks en kan iemand se dag opkikker.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Kom ons wees eerlik, dit lyk soms asof die moderne mens vergeet het wat basiese goeie maniere 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