Ons ken almal daardie individue met hul sterk gevormde menings oor elke saak, wat selfs \u2019n bombastiese aanslag teenoor almal het wat waag om anders te dink as hulle. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hul menings l\u00ea soos Tafelberg uitgestrek \u2013<\/span> onwrikbaar en onbetwisbaar. Kom ons wees eerlik met mekaar: soms is opinies soos daardie trap wat jy miskyk, net om dan hard met die grond kennis te maak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ja, dit is belangrik om sterk oortuigings te h\u00ea, veral in \u2019n w\u00eareld waar die waarheid meer buigsaam is as \u2019n sirkus-akrobaat; ons het vaste standpunte nodig. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sterk menings moet soos \u2019n goed geboude huis wees; ondersteun deur die stewige fondamente van feite, nie net deur die modderige grond van \u201cwant ek s\u00ea so\u201d nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ons onthou almal daardie bekende gesegde, en ek sensureer so effens: \u201cMense wat dink hulle is uiters slim, is nie altyd so slim nie.\u201d Hoe waar is die woorde nie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Dit bring ons by die deug van beskeidenheid in ons oordele en die bereidwilligheid om te luister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Deesdae word debat wat gebaseer is op feite en respek vir iemand anders se mening grootliks ge\u00efgnoreer. As \u2019n mens glo dat sy saak en mening reg en sterk is, word geen teenstand of \u2019n ander mening geduld nie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Mense kommunikeer nie meer om werklik te probeer verstaan nie; dit het verander in geskree en slegs\u00ea, wat dikwels gepaard gaan met aggressie en geweld. W\u00eareldwyd is dit nou die norm hoe mense verskille oor sensitiewe sake benader en hanteer. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Die vaardigheid om eers te luister, daaroor te dink, en dan \u2019n antwoord te oorweeg is amper vergete. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Die w\u00eareld sou draagliker wees as ons almal kan erken dat elke storie twee kante het, soos \u2019n muntstuk. Soms, \u2019n verrassende derde kant wat ons nie eers oorweeg het nie. Soms l\u00ea die waarheid iewers in die middel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dus, voordat jy besluit dat jou mening die enigste een is wat saak maak, onthou om die muntstuk om te draai. Luister na die ander kant, kyk onder die klip van jou vooropgestelde idees, en wie weet? 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