DWELMS ruk lewens uitmekaar en die toename van dwelmgebruik onder skoliere en jongmense op Uitenhage is kommerwekkend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Daarom het die Youth Crime Prevention Desk van Kamesh polisiestasie onlangs \u2019n program aangebied spesifiek om moeders in te lig waarna om op te let indien hulle vermoed dat hul kinders dwelms gebruik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMoeders ly dikwels die meeste, want hulle sien hoe hulle kinders vir wie hulle so baie ideale het se lewens vernietig word deur dwelms,\u201d s\u00ea Ree-Charl Pietersen van Youth Crime Prevention Desk Kamesh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cOns is \u2019n groep jongmense wat omgee oor wat om ons aangaan. Ons wil ander jongmense oorreed om ook in ons visie te deel sodat ons ons gemeenskap kan omkeer ten goede.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n Tekens van dwelmgebruik<\/b>\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Miempie van Wyk van CMR Uitenhage was een van die sprekers en s\u00ea die heel eerste aanduiding dat jou kind moontlik met dwelms te doen het is wanneer jou kind se persoonlikheid en gedrag verander. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAlmal het buie, maar as \u2019n vriendelike kind bombasties en aggressief raak is dit gevaartekens. So-ook as hulle begin om tot laat uit te bly en om vreeslik laat te slaap. \u2019n Mens wat dwelms gebruik het nie woema of lewensenergie nie, hulle lyk eintlik lewensmoeg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cKyk jou kind in die o\u00eb \u2013 dit is die vensters na \u2019n siel. Dwelmgebruik laat o\u00eb bloedbelope en die pupille is dikwels vergroot. \u2019n Ma weet as haar kind haar nie in die o\u00eb kan kyk nie is daar fout.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cKyk ook na jou kind se selfoon-gebruik. As hulle baie vas is aan hulle selfone en nie wil toelaat dat jy sien waarmee hulle besig is nie, is iets nie reg nie. Nog tekens is as geld of goed wegraak uit jou huis, as jou kind se eetgewoontes verander en as hulle tande drasties versleg,\u201d s\u00ea Van Wyk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Wanneer dit by raad kom hoe om op te tree indien \u2019n ouer besef \u2019n kind gebruik dwelms, is \u201ctough love\u201d volgens Van Wyk die ant- woord.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cDit beteken dat jy lief is vir jou kind, maar haat wat hy of sy doen. Hou jou afstand, want jy kan nie \u2019n mens wat dwelms gebruik vertrou nie, hulle is meestermanipuleerders. Hou op om al die stories te glo oor waarvoor hul geld nodig het. Beskerm jou waardigheid en gaan klop aan vir professionele hulp by mense wat opgelei is om met dwelmverslaafdes te werk,\u201d s\u00ea Van Wyk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n Gewetenlose manipuleerders en leuenaars<\/b>\n<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mary-Ann , die gasspreker by die Youth Crime Prevention Desk van Kamesh se program, was vir 11 jaar vasgevang in die dwelmnetwerk. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sy was by \u2019n rehabilitasie-sentrum, maar sonder sukses. Dit was eers nadat sy \u2019n beroerte gekry het weens dwelmgebruik dat sy besluit het om haar lewe te verander. Nou is sy al \u2019n jaar en vier maande skoon en wil ander help om ook los te kom uit di\u00e9 dwelmhel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mary-Ann noem die dwelmname een vir een op, \u201cEk het al daardie verskillende goed gebruik \u2026 maar niks, niks, vat jou weer so high<\/span> soos jou eerste high<\/span> nie. Jy kan maar try<\/span>, maar jy gaan net one way <\/span>en dit is ondertoe. Jou waardes is uit jou uit, jy raak \u2019n gewetenlose niks.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mary-Ann was in Uitenhage op skool toe verkeerde vriende haar in die dwelmw\u00eareld ingetrek het. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cMy praat het soos \u2019n skollie s\u2019n geraak. Ek\u2019t my laat tatoe\u00ebr en so maer geword dat ek my dogtertjie van 12 jaar se klere begin dra het.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cHoe dieper jy in die dwelmw\u00eareld vasgevang word hoe moeiliker raak dit om die volgende fix te kan bekostig en dan raak jy aggressief en doen enigiets om geld te kry. Ek het my eie ma besteel. Jy raak \u2019n kompulsiewe leuenaar en vertrap en misbruik mense wat vir jou lief was.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cVandag is ek verlos, maar glo my, die versoekings is nog daar. Maar my ma is \u2019n biddende moeder. Sy is altyd op haar knie\u00eb en sy hou aan bid vir my.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mary-Ann s\u00ea dit is belangrik dat ouers by ondersteuninggroepe moet aansluit sodat hulle weet hoe om \u2019n kind te hanteer wat uit \u2019n rehabilitasie-sentrum kom. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" DWELMS ruk lewens uitmekaar en die toename van dwelmgebruik onder skoliere en jongmense op Uitenhage is 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