\u2019n Volle 21 jaar nadat \u2019n dogtertjie doodgebore is, vier \u2019n gesin van Welgemoed haar verjaarsdag soos gewoonlik \u2013 deur \u2019n partytjie van \u2019n ander soort te hou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die Grobbelaars, Anda, haar man Len en hul kinders, Lan\u00e9 (24) en Andel\u00e9 (18), gaan op 1 Augustus oudergewoonte vir Anelda (Bibi) eer deur \u2019n engelpartytjie te hou. By hierdie partytjies, wat hulle al sedert 2007 hou, gee hulle vir \u2019n gekose welwillendheidsorganisasie goedere wat hulle ingesamel het. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cDit gee vir my \u2019n geleentheid om \u2019n verskil in ander mense se lewens te maak,\u201d s\u00ea Anda. \u201cEn dit gee waarde aan die feit dat sy gebore en toe dood is. Sy was deel van jou lewe. \u2019n Mens moet dit vier; dit erken.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die gesin het vanjaar die organisasie Hannah\u2019s Place of Safety in Mitchells Plein gekies, nadat hulle vir jare goedere tydens die partytjie aan die Choc-stigting vir kinders met kanker geskenk het.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Anda s\u00ea al rede vir die verandering is omdat \u2019n eks-kollega daar werk en sy s\u00f3 van die plek se behoeftes te hore gekom het.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hannah\u2019s House is \u2019n plek van veiligheid vir mishandelde en afgeskeepte baba\u2019s, wat daar bly totdat hulle in pleegsorg geplaas kan word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die Grobbelaars het destyds die engelpartytjies begin nadat Choc by Lan\u00e9 se skool gepraat het. Sy was toe om en by agt jaar oud en toe sy vir die verteenwoordiger van Choc vertel wat met haar sussie gebeur het, het di\u00e9 haar aangeraai om so \u2019n partytjie te hou om Bibi se lewe te vier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sodoende het die Grobbelaars al deur die jare klomp goed geskenk \u2013 meestal deur vriende, kennisse en kollegas te kontak. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bibi se storie het nie net die partytjies ge\u00efnspireer nie, maar Anda het ook \u2019n boek oor hul verhaal geskryf, wat internasionaal gepubliseer is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die boek Bibi\u2019s Story<\/span> vertel hoe die gesin hul traumatiese gevoelens n\u00e1 Bibi se dood verwerk het en hoop om ander mense met soortgelyke probleme te help. Die boek is op Amazon.com beskikbaar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anda is ook \u2019n motiveringspreker wat ander help om hul hartseer te verwerk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cEk het die geleentheid om vir hulle te leer om van hierdie ongelooflike donker swart gat tot \u2019n plek van lig en hoop te kom.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u2019n Volle 21 jaar nadat \u2019n dogtertjie doodgebore is, vier \u2019n gesin van Welgemoed haar verjaarsdag soos gewoonlik \u2013 deur \u2019n partytjie van \u2019n ander soort te 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