Wat sien jy as jy in die spie\u00ebl kyk?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vroue is dikwels geneig om die beeld wat na hulle terugstaar met meer kritiek te beje\u00ebn as wat geregverdig is. Redes hiervoor is daar legio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Slaan \u2019n tydskrif oop, of skakel die televisie aan en jy word bombardeer met beelde van wat die w\u00eareld as \u201cmooi\u201d of \u201caanvaarbaar\u201d beskou. As mens mooi daaroor dink is die plankdun skoonhede wat as die norm voorgehou word by verre in die minderheid. Dit is iets om aan te dink . . .<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Skoonheid is \u2019n relatiewe begrip. Wie bepaal in elk geval wat binne die grense van mooi is en wat nie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Min dinge maak so seer soos kwetsende aanmerkings. Die impak op die persoon aan die ontvangkant kring veel wyer uit as wat dikwels besef word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eers is daar die aanvanklike seer wat veroorsaak word, maar dan begin neerhalende opmerkings dikwels soos \u2019n kanker verder vreet. Die onsekerheid begin knaag, terwyl selfbewustheid toeneem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ironies genoeg is dit dikwels vroue wat hulle tot venyn wend. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Met Vrouemaand wat verlede week amptelik afgeskop het, is dit \u2019n goeie tyd om te besin oor jou optrede, ook jou woorde teenoor ander vroue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nie almal is dieselfde nie. Elke vrou het haar eie deugde, haar eie skoonheid, daardie \u00ed\u00e9ts wat haar uniek maak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ongeag jou foute en wat ander mag s\u00ea, God het jou na S\u00fd beeld gemaak. Wie is ander dan om te oordeel? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Wanneer dit voel of die w\u00eareld sy rug op jou draai, of wanneer ander jou in seerkry laat wegkrimp, gaan staan voor die spie\u00ebl en kyk met God se o\u00eb na jouself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
God het jou van genoeg waarde geag om die tyd af te staan om jou te maak, net soos jy is. Jy is S\u00fd skepping. Een waarop Hy trots is en lief genoeg het en die grootste moontlike offer voor gegee het.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Om jou te distansieer van die w\u00eareld se opinie is nie maklik nie, maar dalk moet ons nou, in di\u00e9 Vrouemaand, die besluit maak om onsself lief te h\u00ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die lewe gooi genoeg ander uitdagings \u2013 veeleisende beroepe, gesinne om te onderhou en vele ander \u2013 na vroue om ons nog te verknies oor hoe aanvaarbaar jy in die o\u00eb van ander is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gaan staan vandag voor die spie\u00ebl en kyk jouself vierkantig in die o\u00eb. Sien die kosbare wese wat God geskep het en besef dan dat d\u00edt wat eintlik saak maak, binne jou l\u00ea. Jy is sterk. Jy is spesiaal. Lig daarom jou kop met trots en durf die w\u00eareld met di\u00e9 wete aan<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Wat sien jy as jy in die spie\u00ebl kyk?
\nVroue is dikwels geneig om die beeld wat na hulle terugstaar met meer kritiek te beje\u00ebn as wat geregverdig is. Redes hiervoor is daar legio.
\nSlaan \u2019n tydskrif oop, of skakel die televisie aan en jy word bombardeer met beelde van wat die w\u00eareld as \u201cmooi\u201d of \u201caanvaarbaar\u201d beskou. As mens mooi daaroor dink is die plankdun skoonhede wat as die norm voorgehou word by verre in die minderheid. Dit is iets om aan te dink . . .
\nSkoonheid is \u2019n relatiewe begrip. Wie bepaal in elk geval wat binne die grense van mooi is en wat 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