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Ek gaan nie. Altyd iets anders, meer dringend om te doen.<\/p>\n

Tot Sondag. Dalk was dit die soveelste uitnodiging. Dalk wou ek my vriend nie nog \u2019n keer teleurstel nie. Dalk die stemmetjie in my binneste wat s\u00ea: Gaan. Nou. Jy gaan nie gou weer die kans kry nie.<\/p>\n

Ek gaan nie alleen nie. Sleep my altyd-gewillige man saam. Al is half vyf op \u2019n Sondagmiddag dalk baie gevra. \u201cKom, Suidoosterfees toe.\u201d Ons bly traag.<\/p>\n

Min weet ons: nie een van ons twee sal ooit weer dieselfde wees nie.<\/p>\n

Want ons gaan kyk My naam\/name is Ellen Pakkies<\/em><\/strong>, die verhaal van \u2019n Kaapse ma wat haar Adam vermoor uit radeloosheid. Tikverslawing het sy tol ge\u00ebis. Ek weet weer: om \u2019n storie in koerantopskrifte te lees en om direk met die emosie gekonfronteer te word, is nie dieselfde nie.<\/p>\n

Sewende Laan se Vinette Ebrahim word Ellen en Christo Davids is Adam, oftewel Ma se Abie. Die Kaapse verhoog word \u2019n blyplek in Lavender Hill en vir \u2019n uur skuif my kop uit my gemaklike, voorstedelike bestaan na \u2019n harde werklikheid van brutale oorlewing, eensaamheid tussen baie – en liefde.<\/p>\n

\u2019n Ma se liefde vir haar kind<\/strong>. D\u00edt is die ding wat my vang. Ellen Pakkies vermoor haar eie seun, maar eers n\u00e1 hy haar emosioneel moor. Sy doen wat sy moet, en dan, dan hou sy hom styf vas. Soos net \u2019n ma kan.<\/p>\n

My man sluk. Ek gee oor en voel hoe my Moederhart oor my wange loop.<\/p>\n

Op pad huis toe is praat min. Ons wonder wel hoe baie ma\u2019s soos Ellen daar is. En hoe Vinette en Christo voel na hierdie briljante, diep-uitmergelende uur. W\u00e1t van die honderde ander in Ellen en Adam se skoene? Ek dink weer.<\/p>\n

En is stil.<\/p>\n

Terug in suburbia se skuilte s\u00ea \u2019n skoolma sy het een fokus: om seker te maak sy maak nooit \u2019n deur vir haar kind toe nie. My kop is by Ellen. Haar fokus anders. Sy m\u00f3\u00e9s die deur toe kry. Sy\u2019t probeer, hard probeer. Die deur wou nie toe nie. Al het sy hom met al haar krag toegeskop.<\/p>\n

Keer-op- keer-op-keer.<\/p>\n

Soms moet n ma doen wat sy moet<\/strong>. Vashou, moedhou, aanhou, mondhou. Die deur met al jou krag toehou.<\/p>\n

Gisteraand slaap my vyfjarige lyfie op my skoot. Klou vas om die nek van \u2019n skuldige ma wat die week weer die land platgevlieg het. Vashou, moedhou, aanhou, mondhou, dink ek toe ek haar in die bed sit.<\/p>\n

\u201cI love you,\u201d prewel sy slaperig. \u201cI love you too,\u201d s\u00ea ek.<\/p>\n

Soos Ellen het. Soos elke ma doen.<\/p>\n

Tot volgende week,<\/p>\n

Mar\u00ed
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