{"id":5569,"date":"2013-11-22T15:19:35","date_gmt":"2013-11-22T13:19:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rooirose.dvlp.site\/dis-november\/"},"modified":"2016-03-03T13:19:37","modified_gmt":"2016-03-03T11:19:37","slug":"dis-november","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/dis-november\/","title":{"rendered":"Dis November"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Di\u00e9 week lees ek hoe my Facebook-vrinne en ander kommentators oor November en sy vreemde ritmes praat. Een noem dit die Donderdag van die jaar. Ditsem, dink ek as rubriekskrywer Annemarie van der Walt die maand beskryf as <strong>\u201cNerwerige November\u201d<\/strong>. Nerwerig. So d\u00edt is wat dit is.<\/p>\n<p>Sondagoggend, na ek en my Emma-kind op die maat van Boney M ons blinkoog verwonder het aan die sprokieswit <strong>Kersversierings<\/strong> in ons dorpswinkel (en net daar besluit het om ons Kersboom op te maak, al is dit nou eers November) sien ek die twee by die fontein. \u2018n Jong man en vrou, terwyl hul tweejarige (dink ek) in die water plas. Hy druk sy vinger uitdagend in die donkerkop se gesig, sy retireer, draai om, stap weg. \u201cKry beheer,\u201d snou sy hom toe. Hard genoeg sodat die starendes kan hoor.<\/p>\n<p>Later sien ek die twee by \u2018n <strong>koffiewinkel<\/strong> sit. Goed so, dink ek. Koffie help. Die tweejarige se klere is sopnat van water-plas. Die jong vrou kyk hom stip aan, haar onderlip bewe en met een hand probeer sy die tranevloed keer. Hy luister nie, dink ek. Kyk ook nie vir haar nie, staar net.<\/p>\n<p>Dis <strong>November<\/strong>. Mans word winkels toe gesleep, kry benoud, baklei, probeer ek hul storie skryf. Maar weet hul storielyn l\u00ea veel dieper.<\/p>\n<p>Die week kom die sms van \u2018n vriendin-kollega se man. \u201cM\u00f4re is Melanie se verjaarsdag. Ek neem haar uit vir die dag, want verlede jaar moes sy by my in ICU sit.\u201d Ek onthou my vriendin se staande bly deur verskriklike vrees. Jy\u2019s in jou vroe\u00eb veertigs, jou kinders klein. Dan word jou geliefde se alledaagse pyn oornag kanker en jy kry pynlik perspektief.<\/p>\n<p>Vanmiddag lees ek haar dankie-boodskap: \u201cEk het \u2018n gentle verjaarsdag gehad. Gentle in vergelyking met verlede jaar. Ontbyt saam met my geliefde, en toe \u2018n entjie gaan stap. Soos twee ou mense, ek weet, maar dit was heerlik . . . \u201c<br \/>\nIn November.<\/p>\n<p>Die foon lui, dis ons getroue <strong>au pair<\/strong>. Sy\u2019s siek, die dokter s\u00ea sy moet \u2018n week lank tuis bly. My hart klop vinniger. Ek rits die week se lysie in my kop af. Op die kinders se agenda is daar skoolwerk, kitaar- en swemlesse, \u2018n wetenskapprojek, twee toetse, sokker, karate en balletkonsert-oefening. Op my lysie drie sakeplanne wat moet klaar, \u2018n trek na splinternuwe kantore, \u2018n werksessie met \u2018n belangrike kli\u00ebnt en \u2018n onderhoud vir \u2018n moontlike nuwe projek. \u2018n Le\u00eb yskas, reisende man en Kersinkopies maak die hele spulletjie interessant.<\/p>\n<p>Ek fokus \u2013 dis tyd vir Plan B, C en D. \u2018n Skoonsuster, vriendin, kollegas, Oupa en Ouma &#8211; elkeen kry sy deel.<\/p>\n<p>Dis November, s\u00ea ek later as ek uitasem tyd maak vir vinnige <strong>koffie<\/strong> saam met \u2018n vriendin. Wonder vlugtig hoe dit met die tranerige jong vrou en haar moeilike man gaan, of my au pair volgende week sal terug wees en wanneer ek die <strong>Kersinkopies<\/strong> gaan doen. \u201cDis mos maar elke jaar se ding,\u201d s\u00ea sy wys. \u201cNog koffie?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Tot volgende week,<br \/>\nMar\u00ed<br \/>\n<a target=\"\">www.incontext.co.za<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Di\u00e9 week lees ek hoe my Facebook-vrinne en ander kommentators oor November en sy vreemde ritmes praat. Een noem dit die Donderdag van die jaar. Ditsem, dink ek as rubriekskrywer Annemarie van der Walt die maand beskryf as \u201cNerwerige November\u201d. 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