{"id":5494,"date":"2013-10-30T08:03:00","date_gmt":"2013-10-30T06:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rooirose.dvlp.site\/doodgewoon-menslike-aanraking\/"},"modified":"2016-03-03T12:46:22","modified_gmt":"2016-03-03T10:46:22","slug":"doodgewoon-menslike-aanraking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/doodgewoon-menslike-aanraking\/","title":{"rendered":"Doodgewoon menslike aanraking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ek h\u00f3\u00fa van aanraking.<\/p>\n<p>Dis natuurlik ietwat riskant om hierdie bekentenis te maak. Op een of ander onverklaarbare manier het aanraking in ons samelewing \u2018n slegte naam gekry; jy moet mooi dink waar, wanneer en hoe jy aan iemand raak of aangeraak word.<\/p>\n<p>Die Groot Vrees is waarskynlik dat aanraking seksuele ondertone sal h\u00ea en pervers of skadelik sal wees. Terwyl ek nie ontken dat dit by tye die geval is nie, word die baba baie keer sommer summier saam met die badwater uitgegooi. Die spontane behoefte om op \u2018n inkopietog by \u2018n hartsvriendin in te haak of vir \u2018n kollega \u2018n lekker druk te gee, word dikwels ge\u00efgnoreer omdat die gebaar vreemd mag lyk of verkeerd opgeneem kan word.<\/p>\n<p>Hoe jammer tog! Ons is warm wesens wat van nature daarop ingestem is om met ander kontak te maak \u2013 nie net emosioneel of intellektueel nie, maar ook fisiek. Dis algemeen bekend dat navorsingstudies bewys het baba-apies met draadma\u2019s se ontwikkeling word gestrem hoewel hulle genoeg kos kry \u2013 die deurslaggewende vel tot vel-kontak ontbreek. Die meeste van ons weet ook intu\u00eftief wat die term \u201cvelhonger\u201d beteken.<\/p>\n<p>Hoe gemaak met \u2018n behoefte aan doodgewoon menslike aanraking? Soms wens ek ons het massering as natuurlik en noodsaaklik beskou, soos die Thai bevolking klaarblyklik doen. In Bangkok is daar \u2018n masseersalon om elke hoek, dis goedkoop (hoewel diie hantering soms aan die hardhandige kant is) en niemand verdink jou van duistere motiewe as jy by \u2018n Thai masseuse aanmeld nie.<\/p>\n<p>Dalk moet ons \u2018n masseertradisie in ons gesinne begin. Boetie kan Ma se voete masseer in ruil vir al die kere wat sy hom en sy meisie by die fliek gaan aflaai, Sussie kan kopmasserings uitdeel, en Pa \u2026 wel, pa\u2019s het mos ook talente?<\/p>\n<p>Ek dink ons vroue moet in hierdie geval aan die ontvangkant wees. Sonder ons het die samelewing al lankal \u2018n algehele ineengestorting beleef.<\/p>\n<p>Toe, waarvoor wag jy? Gaan google \u2018n paar masseertegnieke en haal \u2018n kind, lewensmaat, niggie, kollega(?) of wie ookal oor om \u2018n nuwe, gesonde, genesende tradisie op dreef te kry.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ek h\u00f3\u00fa van aanraking. Dis natuurlik ietwat riskant om hierdie bekentenis te maak. 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