{"id":147898,"date":"2025-09-05T13:55:40","date_gmt":"2025-09-05T11:55:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/?p=147898"},"modified":"2025-09-05T13:55:49","modified_gmt":"2025-09-05T11:55:49","slug":"as-jy-werklik-lief-is-vir-my-word-jy-emosioneel-afgepers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/as-jy-werklik-lief-is-vir-my-word-jy-emosioneel-afgepers\/","title":{"rendered":"Emosionele afpersing: Hoe om manipuleerders te herken"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deur Luisa van der Linde<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jou maat, vriendin of kollega vra jou om iets te doen, maar hierdie versoek is onredelik en jy weier.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Die persoon plaas druk op jou. As dit \u2019n gesonde verhouding is, sal die ander party dit aanvaar of saam met jou \u2019n oplossing probeer vind. \u2019n Emosionele afperser sal egter net meer druk toepas of jou met iets dreig.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Susan Forward gee di\u00e9 voorbeeld in haar boek, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear Obligation Guilt<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> en skryf dat hierdie dreigemente direk of indirek kan wees en dat \u2019n mens gewoonlik eers nie wil ingee nie, maar later maar doen omdat jy nie wil h\u00ea die persoon moet hul dreigemente deurvoer nie.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Op die ou einde voldoen jy aan die eise en s\u00f3 word \u2018n patroon gevorm waar jy leer dat dit makliker is om te doen wat gevra word.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-147902 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/pexels-yankrukov-7640766-500x333.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prof Jonathan Scholtz, \u2019n kliniese sielkundige, s\u00ea hoewel die uiteindelike doel beheer oor iemand anders is, is daar tog graadverskille in die bedoeling, metodes en uiteindelike skade wat met emosionele afpersing, manipulasie en mishandeling plaasvind.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDie manipuleerder wil \u2018n wanbalans in mag bewerkstellig sodat hy of sy mag, beheer, gunste en gawes of voordele kan bekom. Vir die emosionele afperser gaan dit daaroor om die slagoffer skuldig of ontsteld te laat voel, die sogenaamde vrees-verpligting-skuldgevoel-dinamiek.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDie gemiddelde mens besef nie dat persoonlikheidsversteurings baie meer algemeen voorkom as wat hulle besef nie,\u201d s\u00ea prof Jonathan.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Lees ook:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/5-dinge-wat-niemand-jou-vertel-voor-jy-trou-nie\/\">5 dinge wat niemand jou vertel voor jy trou nie<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Een uit 200 mense in Amerika het byvoorbeeld \u2019n narsistiese persoonlikheidsversteuring en soveel as 4% het anti-sosiale persoonlikheidsversteuring (soortgelyk aan die ou begrip psigopatie).\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prof Jonathan s\u00ea hierdie twee persoonlikheidsversteurings is die groot sondebokke as dit by manipulasie, emosionele afpersing en emosionele sowel as fisieke mishandeling kom.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDie graad van erns is ook baie hoog in die gevalle sodat dit soms kriminele afmetings aanneem. In gevalle waar iemand vermoed hul manipuleerder het een van die versteurings moet hulle dit met \u2018n kliniese sielkundige bespreek.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2018n Manipuleerder verdraai feite. Die persoon kan jok, blameer, wanvoorstellings maak, inligting weerhou of feite strategies deel om beheer of intellektuele meerderwaardigheid te verkry. <\/span><\/li>\n<li>\u2018n Manipuleerder is lief daarvoor om te oordryf of veralgemeen en wrede humor kan gebruik word om op jou swakpunte te speel en jou onseker te laat.<\/li>\n<li>Die manipuleerder sal sy of haar slagoffer konstant veroordeel en net op hul foute fokus. Hulle sal jou laat voel of niks wat jy doen goed genoeg is nie.<\/li>\n<li>Hulle is altyd die slagoffer en gebruik hul hulpeloosheid as \u2018n verskoning om ander te kry om te doen wat hulle wil h\u00ea.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Manipuleerders kan ook ander met gedrag afpers deur &#8230;\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8230; slagoffers uit hul gemaksone of bekende omgewing probeer kry om die oorhand te h\u00ea.<\/span><\/li>\n<li>&#8230; passiewe aggressie soos stilstuipe te gebruik om die slagoffer verward en skuldig te laat voel.<\/li>\n<li>&#8230; intimiteit, finansies of besluitnemingsreg te weerhou.<\/li>\n<li>&#8230; kwaad te word as hul behoeftes nie onmiddellik bevredig word nie.<\/li>\n<li>&#8230; nie \u201cnee\u201d vir \u2018n antwoord te aanvaar nie.<\/li>\n<li>&#8230; iemand anders die skuld vir hul eie verkeerde gedrag te gee soos: \u201cEk is aggressief, want jy lok my uit.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>&#8230; iets vir jou gee,\u00a0 maar iets in ruil verwag. Byvoorbeeld: \u201cEk het jou skuld uit die liefde van my hart betaal, maar nou moet jy \u2026\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-147905 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/pexels-liza-summer-6383158-500x333.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><b>Padda in die warm water<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2019n Voorligtingsielkundige Suzanne Gelderblom s\u00ea omdat die emosionele afpersing of manipulasie subtiel en sistematies is, word jy mettertyd gebreinspoel.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cJy begin naderhand anders te redeneer. Die verhouding word gekenmerk aan \u2018n tipe mallemeule (<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rollercoaster<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">). As dit goedgaan, gaan dit besonder goed en dis omdat jy jouself gedra, maar as dit sleg gaan, word jy daarvoor blameer.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prof Jonathan s\u00ea hy vind in sy praktyk dat dit vir slagoffers moeilik is om manipulasie te identifiseer, omdat alle mense nie ewe emosioneel intelligent is nie.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cSommige mense is meer liggelowig as ander. Vir ander is dit te belangrik om in die spesifieke verhouding te wees, hulle hou hulself blind vir die realiteit. Wanneer die manipuleerder of afperser \u2018n narsistiese of psigopatiese persoonlikheid het, is hulle baie goed met wat hulle doen, selfs klinici word soms deur hulle gemanipuleer.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Lees ook:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/familievervreemding-wanneer-vriende-die-nuwe-familie-word\/\">Familievervreemding: Wanneer vriende die nuwe familie word<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><b>Maak jouself meer weerbaar<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prof Jonathan s\u00ea as jy vermoed jy word gemanipuleer moet jy duidelike grense stel oor wat aanvaarbaar is en wat nie.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cOns begaan daagliks foute met die grense neerl\u00ea en is dikwels nie eers daarvan bewus nie. Kommunikeer direk en duidelik. Stel onomwonde dat jy weet jy word gemanipuleer en dat jy nie deel van die gesprek wil wees nie.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDit is belangrik om nie emosioneel te reageer nie. Gebruik logika en \u2018n beheersde stemtoon en gesigsuitdrukking. Wees afgemete en konsekwent in jou mededelings en optrede teenoor die manipuleerder,\u201d s\u00ea hy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hy s\u00ea by \u2018n narsistiese manipuleerder moet jy soms \u2018n rol speel asof jy \u2018n akteur is.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cHulle teer op emosionaliteit. Jy kan n\u00e1 die tyd in die stort gaan huil, maar voor die manipuleerder moet jy sterk voorkom.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cVir baie slagoffers l\u00ea die wortel van hul probleem in hul gebrek aan eiewaarde,\u201d s\u00ea prof Jonathan..\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cMeeste mense is daarvan bewus dat hulle \u2018n swak selfbeeld of lae eiewaarde het, hoewel hulle dit nie altyd wil erken of prontuit s\u00ea nie. As misbruik of manipulasie deur ander meer as een keer in iemand se geskiedenis voorkom, moet hulle professionele hulp soek om kwessies soos lae eiewaarde en afhanklikheidstrekke in hul persoonlikheid te hanteer. As daardie tipe eienskappe voorkom, maak dit die manipuleerder se taak nog makliker. Die manipuleerder sal die persoon se afhanklikheid gebruik om hom of haar emosioneel aan hulle te bind in \u2018n soort emosionele gevangenis wat jare kan aanhou.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><b>Ko-afhanklikheid<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suzanne verduidelik dat lae selfwaarde dikwels by ko-afhanklikheid aansluit.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDaar is \u2018n gesegde wat s\u00ea: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Co-dependency is driven by the agreement that I will work harder on your problem and your life than you do<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Dit is uiters belangrik dat die slagoffer moet leer en verstaan en aanvaar dat emosionele afpersing nie liefde is nie. Dit is vir albei partye ongesond en destruktief.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suzanne s\u00ea: \u201cAs iets verkeerd voel, is dit waarskynlik verkeerd. As jy \u2018nee\u2019 wil s\u00ea, moet nooit \u2018ja\u2019 s\u00ea nie, want dan word jy waarskynlik gemanipuleer.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prof Jonathan s\u00ea daar is veral twee vrae wat \u2018n mens aan jouself moet vra as jy ongemaklik of ongelukkig in \u2018n verhouding is.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hoe laat die persoon my voel? As dit meestal negatief is, moet die rooi ligte aangaan. Laat hy of sy jou\u00a0 swaarmoedig, bang, senuweeagtig, skuldig, minderwaardig of negatief voel?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wat verdien ek? Verdien ek om veroordeel of verneder te word, sarkasme en wrede humor te ervaar,\u00a0 stilstuipe; om afgekraak te word, ensovoorts?\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-157647 size-medium aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/pexels-cottonbro-6565235-500x333.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"333\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><b>Manipulasie of mishandeling?<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is dit moontlik om te weet wanneer emosionele manipulasie of afpersing na emosionele mishandeling oorskakel?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prof Jonathan s\u00ea omdat die een tipe afpersing soomloos in die volgende een kan oorgaan, is dit nie maklik vir die slagoffer om te besefwanneer professionele hulp ingewin moet word nie.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cNabye vriende of familie behoort in staat te wees om hul eie ongemak oor die situasie en blote gesonde verstand te kan gebruik. Tekens van depressie soos neerslagtigheid, huilerigheid, onttrekking, verswakte konsentrasie, slaapprobleme, te min eet of ooreet en negatiwiteit tree gewoonlik prominent na vore by gevalle van emosionele mishandeling. Die persoon mag ook angssimptome ontwikkel soos slaapprobleme, rusteloosheid, episodes van paniek, verhoogde sweetrespons, versnelde hartklop en vermeerdering in kompensatoriese gedrag soos skoonmaak of oefen.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suzanne voeg by:\u00a0 \u201cWanneer jy in jouself begin twyfel, wanneer jy jouself isoleer en mense vermy kan rooi ligte flikker. Jou vriende en familie kan aanmerkings maak en vra wat aangaan, of s\u00ea jy het \u2018n karakter- en persoonlikheidsverandering ondergaan. Win veral professionele hulp in wanneer mense vir jou \u2018n bedreiging raak of jy voel dis veiliger om jouself te isoleer.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sy s\u00ea emosionele afpersing is wanneer iemand jou uitbuit, dreig of dwing om sy of haar wil of sin te kry. Die persoon wat afgepers word, doen dus dit teen hul sin, maar vrees die uitkoms as hulle weier.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cEmosionele manipulasie is wanneer iemand emosioneel op jou gevoel speel om iets te doen.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Die persoon speel op jou goedgunstigheid. Emosionele mishandeling is wanneer \u2018n persoon beheer wil uitoefen deur \u2018n verskuilde agenda. Hulle is geneig om jou persoonlik af te kraak, met subtiele opmerkings. Dit is \u2018n progressiewe en langtermynmanier van beheer waardeur die persoon jou laat twyfel in jouself, jou isoleer, jou intimideer en laat skuldig voel vir dinge wat geensins jou verantwoordelikheid is nie.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Lees ook:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/5-maniere-om-meer-selfvertroue-te\/\">5 maniere om meer selfvertroue te h\u00ea<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4><b>Kennis is mag\u00a0<\/b><\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Prof Jonathan s\u00ea dis belangrik om soveel as moontlik kennis in te win.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cLees daaroor op en luister na potgooie. Praat met \u2018n vriend of vriendin of \u2018n objektiewe buitestaander. Gaan sien \u2018n berader of sielkundige wat jou kan help om jou brein stadig, maar seker te herprogrammeer om nuwe neurale bane neer te l\u00ea,\u201d s\u00ea hy.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cMet kundige raad en leiding kan jy jou reaksie op die manipulasie verander en die oormaat skadelike slegvoelhormone (soos kortisol) wat jy tydens interaksie met die manipuleerder afskei, monitor.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suzanne s\u00ea as jy vermoed dat jy \u2018n slagoffer van emosionele manipulasie is, het jy terapeutiese ingryping nodig.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cDaar is nie noodwendig \u2018n generiese antwoord of \u2018n <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">quick fix<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> nie. Dit is noodsaaklik dat jy ingelig moet raak en insig moet ontwikkel in die persoon wat jou misbruik, afpers of mishandel en so ook insig moet ontwikkel in jou eie interpersoonlike styl wat moontlik die persoon se gedrag in stand hou of selfs bevorder.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-157648 size-medium aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/pexels-szafran-33765323-500x326.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"326\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kry hulp<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As jy\u00a0 in \u2018n destruktiewe verhouding is, gaan sien \u2018n geregistreerde sielkundige of berader of bel die Suid-Afrikaanse Depressie- en Angshulplyn (Sadag) by 011\u00a0262 6396<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kenner: Suzanne Gelderblom by <\/span><a href=\"mailto:suzannevlill@gmail.com\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">suzannevlill@gmail.com<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lees ook:\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/novanews.co.za\/rooirose\/verwerk-jou-pyn\/\">Verwerk jou pyn<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Deur Luisa van der Linde &nbsp; Jou maat, vriendin of kollega vra jou om iets te doen, maar hierdie versoek is onredelik en jy weier.\u00a0 Die persoon plaas druk op jou. 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