Die is \u2018n voldonge feit dat ons almal van geweet wil wees. Al is jy hoe skaam, die grootste introvert of kluisenaar \u2013 daar kom tye en geleenthede waar jy ook in tel wil wees, wil aandag h\u00ea en van geweet wees. Natuurlik is dit ook so dat daar verskillende persoonlikheidstipes is en party het \u2018n veel groter behoefte aan aandag as ander.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dit verstom my altyd as akteurs vertel hulle is eintlik baie skaam, anti-sosiaal, hou nie juis van mense nie, kwalifiseer as introverte, en verkies dikwels om in afsondering te bly\u2026. Ver weg van mense en hulle dinge. Maar dan sien mens hulle in die kollig, op die verhoog of televisieskerm. En waar wil jy nou duideliker raakgesien wees as hier?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ander mense verkies om met tatoe\u00ebrmerke raakgesien te word. Daardie opsigtelike blou \u2018sleeves\u2019 van sommiges, trek mos nou baie aandag. Die gewone mens kan nie anders as om dit raak te sien nie. Nuuskierige mense soos ek (wat glo dit het \u2018n dieper betekenis), sal beslis uitvra. Ook die kleiner tatoe\u00ebrmerke het al interessante gesprekke tot gevolg gehad. Elkeen met ek al \u2018n gesprek aangeknoop het hieroor, was gretig om te vertel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dan is daar ook di\u00e9 wat aandag trek met vreemde haarstyle. Of kleure. Deesdae sien mense dikwels die haarstyle wat kort aan die kante geskeer is met \u2018n weligheid bo op die kop. Dis nou mode, maar trek steeds aandag. As jou hare pers gekleur is, of nog beter, verskillende kleure, dan moet jy die aandag wat na jou kant toe kom, kan v\u00e1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Verspotte kleredrag trek nie meer so baie aandag nie, maar as mens darem so te s\u00ea kaal is, gaan die koppe draai, en kan jy nie wil skaam wees nie. Soos ons onlangs nog in die media die rapper Khanyi West kaalbas nooi gesien het\u2026net met bietjie gaas hier en daar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Skoolkinders het veral \u2018n groot behoefte aan erkenning, veral van hulle maats. Party kinders sal hou van positiewe erkenning deur te presteer. Maar ander kere sal kinders seker maak hulle trek aandag deur stout te wees. Bendes is alombekend daarvoor dat die lede belangrik voel, en dat hulle \u00earens hoort. Soms eskaleer die behoefte aan \u2018van geweet wees\u2019 tot misdaad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dan is daar die gewilde manier om raakgesien te word. En dit is om \u2018n \u2018smaakmaker\u2019op sosiale media te wees. Genugtig! Ek het die afgelope tyd \u2018n paar dopgehou en dit het my erg verveel. Wie stel nou belang daarin om iemand dop te hou wat minute lank oopmond \u2018n pizza sit en eet? Dis nou wel \u2018n verskuilde advertensie vir die pizza soort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Maar regtig. Inisiatief is maar skraal. \u2018n Ander \u2018adverteer\u2019 klere, wat gepaard gaan met spastiese bewegings en dowwe gesigsuitdrukkings. Om van selfies met getuite lippe nie eers te praat nie! Die wat dit gebruik vir humor, soos komediante, se volgelinge styg die hoogte in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Natuurlik is daar ander wat die medium sorgvuldig en professioneel gebruik. Daar is kunstenaars wat hulle werke bekendstel op kreatiewe maniere, en lewensafrigters wat pittige brokkies deel. Dit kan nogal \u2018n mens se tyd steel om deur die warboel op sosiale media te soek na iets sinvol. Tensy jy weet wie om te volg. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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