Volgens verhouding-kundiges is daar vyf tale van die liefde. Kortliks kom dit neer op woorde, dade, tyd, aanraking en geskenke. Maar lank gelede het \u2019n predikant vir my ges\u00ea hy wens alle mans wil besef dat die pad na \u2019n vrou se hart deur haar ore loop: as hy die regte dinge s\u00ea, sal alles verder reg wees!<\/p>\n
Wys my \u2019n vrou wat nie daarvan hou om gevlei en gekomplimenteer te word nie! Ons wil almal hoor ons lyk mooi, ruik lekker, dat ons hare blink, dat ons reg is, \u2019n goeie ma is en ook die slimste is. <\/p>\n
Nou is daar ongelukkig manne in ander lande wat di\u00e9 truuk al te goed ken en weerlose vroue die kous oor die kop trek. Vroue kry gereeld die vreemdste vriendskapsversoeke op sosiale media van aantreklike mans. <\/p>\n
Omdat baie vroue smag na aandag en altyd hoop op die romantiese ridder, val hulle dan halsoorkop vir die slenters en gladdebek skarminkels. <\/p>\n
\u2019n Vriendin vertel my van \u2019n bejaarde vrou wat so \u2019n vriendskapsversoek aanvaar het van \u2019n man baie jare haar junior. In \u2019n ommesientjie het die vreemdeling die vrou oorrompel met sy slimpraatjies. Hy nooi haar toe om by hom in Amerika te gaan kuier. Hy verneuk haar toe uit derduisende rande. Van die kuier het dadels gekom en hy het soos \u2019n groot speld verdwyn.<\/p>\n
Ek besluit toe om self navorsing te doen, en aanvaar toe Michael Scott se versoek. Wat \u2019n aantreklike Pool! Sjoe! Ek het effens saamgespeel. Sommer op die tweede dag skrywe hy: \u201cMy dear Veronica, you are wonderful and I adore you for the queen you are. I love your smile.\u201d Kort daarna was ek \u201camazing, gorgeous, beautiful, charming, honest, sincere, in good shape en understanding.\u201d<\/p>\n
Toe wil die \u2018drilling engineer\u2019 wat in die see naby Nederland werk, toe net h\u00ea ons moet \u2019n \u2018relationship\u2019 bou. Ek moes kwaai wal gooi toe hy s\u00ea hy kan nie wag dat die orige drie maande van sy kontrak moet verstryk nie \u201cso that I can come to South Africa with my twelve-year-old daughter, and we will be a happy family. I have a pure heart of love and believe in true love.\u201d<\/p>\n
O nee! Wag \u2019n bietjie Mnr. Scott. Vir \u2019n uitlandse tiener en man sien ek nie kans nie. Ek vra toe vir \u2019n video-oproep want ek wil sien met wie ek te doen het. Hy is toe sowaar pragtig, met \u2019n ligte stem en swaar Poolse aksent. Hy vra my toe iets wat ek nie verstaan nie, en ek s\u00ea hy moet eerder skryf. En daar kom dit toe! Hy vra my om vir hom \u2019n dure foonkaart te koop sodat hy sy dogtertjie kan kontak. Behalwe dat dit nie vir my sin gemaak het nie, sou ek nie \u2019n sent op hom spandeer nie.<\/p>\n
Was die \u2018God fearing\u2019 man nie vies toe ek nie val vir sy versoek nie? Dit was my plan om h\u00f3m te blok sodra geld ter sprake kom. Toe is hierdie \u201cprecious woman for whom I will climb a hundred mountains and swim thousand rivers,\u201d skielik n\u00e1 \u2019n week \u2019n teleurstelling.<\/p>\n
\u201cThis is very disappointing, you should not treat a friend like this.\u201d <\/p>\n
Ek moet skaam bely \u2013 ek het sy le\u00eb vleitaal geniet en uitgesien na elke boodskap. Ook erg afgehaal dat hy m\u00fd geblok het nog voor ek dit kon doen. <\/p>\n
Bevestiging: die pad na \u2019n vrou se hart loop beslis deur haar ore! Loop lig, Eva\u2019s!<\/p>\n
Ek sal maar liefs die versoeke van George Harris, Desmond Nelson, Jannik David en dies meer ignoreer. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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