Dit is nou maar eenmaal so dat ons almal wil m\u00f3\u00f3i lyk \u2013 aanvaarbaar vir die res van die w\u00eareld. Om seker te maak elke haar l\u00ea op sy plek, of juis nie, is \u2019n spie\u00ebl meestal nodig. <\/p>\n
Ons is wel verskillend bedraad, en ons het almal \u2019n ander mening oor wat nou eintlik \u2018mooi\u2019 is. Di\u00e9 gier het al in die tyd van Aspoestertjie bestaan. Al het die drie susters gedink hulle is beeldskoon, was hulle bekend as die drie \u2018lelike\u2019 susters!<\/p>\n
En natuurlik het Sneeuwitjie se beweerde skoonheid, die ou \u2018lelike\u2019 heks woedend gemaak. Nogal \u2019n spie\u00ebl wat kon praat. As ons darem deesdae sulke spie\u00ebls kon h\u00ea, wat sommer padlangs die waarheid praat, vermoed ek heelwat mense sou minstens sewe jaar ongeluk ervaar nadat hulle die weerkaatsing stukkend gegooi het!<\/p>\n
Een van die lekkerste tydverdrywe is wanneer ek \u00earens moet wag en mense kan dophou. Ek wonder dikwels: \u201cHet die persoon sowaar vandag voor die spie\u00ebl gestaan en gedink: \u2018Sjoe, maar nou lyk ek op my mooiste en beste!\u2019\u201d Natuurlik beoordeel ek volgens my eie smaak, beperkte modekennis en voorkeure. Dit dra mens gewoonlik aan jou kinders oor \u2013 net om mettertyd agter te kom hulle het \u2019n eie identiteit en smaak, en is tevrede met \u2019n ander voorkoms as wat jy voorgestaan het. My Dr. Kerriekopkind gee klas met modieuse sandale\/sloffies. <\/p>\n
My ma het altyd ges\u00ea mens dra nie wit skoene in die winter nie, en sy het geglo dat jou persoonlikheid in jou skoene sit. En kyk maar\u2026. As iemand se skoene verslons, vuil, afgeloop en oud is, skort daar gewoonlik iets. Nou besef ek dis \u2019n veralgemening. Van die oulikste mense steur hulle soms min aan skoene \u2013 dis vir hulle net funksioneel.<\/p>\n
Ek kan my vergaap aan mense, veral vroue, wat die interessantste kombinasies van kleure en items kan bymekaargooi en met selfvertroue dra. Vir iemand anders is dit dalk lelik. <\/p>\n
Om oor hare nie te praat nie! Self verkies ek \u2019n styl wat windbestand is: dit moet maar kan verwaai sonder om sleg te lyk. Maar oeeeee, ek ken vroue wat \u00fare deurbring om hulle hare te tooi met krullers, warm katoeters, haardro\u00ebrs, spuitgoed, jel en wat nie als nie. En dan, as die wind net \u2019n slag oor die koppe waai, is alles tot niet en staan die hare elkeen sy eie rigting. Dis selfs die tendens by seuns. Ek sien maar hoe noukeurig my kleinseun sy kuif met jel agtertoe laat swish<\/span>. Om mooi te lyk.<\/p>\n Daar is vroue wat om die dood nie gesien wil word sonder grimering nie. Die geskilder van die gesig neem \u2019n ewigheid! Elke potloodstreep, poeierkwas, roompie en verbloemer word met die grootste noukeurigheid aangewend. Maar is dit nou mooi? Vir die betrokke vrou, ja! Iemand anders sal wonder of die vrou wel \u2019n spie\u00ebl het. <\/p>\n Mens ontmoet soms iemand wat nou nie so mooi uitgekom het nie.Die neus is te dit of dat, o\u00eb is te groot of klein, lippe te dik of dun. Volgens mode tydskrifte \u2018lelik\u2019. Maar dan is dit die liefste omgee mens met \u2019n aansteeklike sin vir humor. Die \u2018foute\u2019 raak dan onsigbaar.<\/p>\n Ons is maar geneig om die boek te oordeel aan sy baadjie. Maar dis gelukkig uit die mode.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Dit is nou maar eenmaal so dat ons almal wil m\u00f3\u00f3i lyk \u2013 aanvaarbaar vir die res van die w\u00eareld. 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