Hoewel Tashwell van der Rheede se getuienis belangrike vrae rakende Charlene October se laaste oomblikke beantwoord het, het haar geliefdes baie vrae wat hulle kwel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Charlene se broer, Kevin Jooste, het in \u2019n inskrywing op Facebook gevra: \u201cHoe koud is \u2019n mens se hart as hy jou hand vat op die dag van die begrafnis en simpatiseer oor die verlies van jou suster \u2013 met dieselfde hand wat deel was van die hande wat haar lewe so wreed van haar af weggeneem het?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cHoe koud is \u2019n mens se hart as hy vir jou s\u00ea jy moet sterk wees vir jou ma terwyl hy die rede is dat my ma se hart en siel stukkend is oor die verlies van haar dogter wat hy van haar af weggeneem het?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Di\u00e9 vrae verwys na Charlene se gewese man, Ashley October, se optrede n\u00e1 haar dood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nog \u2019n familielid s\u00ea sy kan nie verstaan hoe \u2019n man sy kinders se ma se lewe kon neem en sodoende vir hulle onnodige trauma veroorsaak nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sy het bygevoeg dat sy heeltemal dronkgeslaan is oor die feit dat October die \u201cvermetelheid\u201d gehad het om aan \u2019n plakkaatoptog n\u00e1 Charlene se dood deel te neem en hoe hy bewegingloos gestaan het toe by \u2019n gedenkdiens by Charlene se huis gebid is dat God die skuldiges na vore moet laat kom. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAlmal het so baie vrae, maar hy swyg. Het hy nie \u2019n hart nie?\u201d het sy bygevoeg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Charlene se suster Alicia Jooste het in \u2019n slagofferimpakverklaring ges\u00ea die familie is \u201cgebroke\u201d en \u201cin twee geskeur\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sy het ook genoem haar familie is sedert October se inhegtenisneming in November 2021 nie eens weer toegelaat om Charlene se twee jongste kinders, wat nou by hul pa se familie woon, te sien nie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Haar vraag is hoe October die dag voor die moord saam met Charlene middagete kon geniet het. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Haar tweelingsuster, Alexa Jooste, s\u00ea sy sukkel om te verstaan hoe die man, wat eens beloof het om Charlene lief te h\u00ea en te beskerm en die pa van haar twee jongste kinders is, deur sy wrede dade Charlene se kinders van hul ma kon ontneem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNathan moes sy 21ste verjaardag, uit desperaatheid vir sy ma, langs haar graf deurbring. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cEthan, sy ma se eersgeborene, moes sy ma se lewelose liggaam aanskou en hy gaan daai beeld altyd saam met hom dra. Hoe wreed moet jy wees om nie \u2019n maand oue baba (Zarah, wat die aand van die moord by haar ouma geslaap het) in ag te neem nie? Hoe lank was sy daardie aand onversorg?\u201d vra sy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hul ma se gesondheid en haar \u201cmenswees\u201d is geknou, het Alexa bygevoeg.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMy ma (71) was in Julie 2021 nog fluks en gesond. Drie maande n\u00e1 Charlene se moord het my ma gevra hoekom Charlene nie meer bel nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cOns moes sedertdien oor en oor die nuus breek, en elke keer breek my ma se hart en ons huil asof dit die eerste keer is dat ons van Charlene se moord hoor.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Alexa het ook vertel hoe Ashley aan \u2019n plakkaatoptog deelgeneem en selfs \u2019n petisie geteken het wat opgestel is nadat Van der Rhede in hegtenis geneem is om te vra dat hy nie op borgtog vrygelaat moet word nie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die skuldigbevinding en vonnis, s\u00ea Alexa, bring skrale troos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cOns geliefde is dood, maar sy familie kan nog vir hom gaan kuier terwyl ons na ons geliefde se graf moet gaan,\u201d het Alexa ges\u00ea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Alicia het n\u00e1 die vonnisoplegging op Facebook geskryf: \u201cHaar kinders is seer. Haar familie is seer. Haar dood is nog nie verwerk nie. Haar naam is nog elke dag op ons lippe. Die seer volg ons soos \u2019n donker wolk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMag jy die lewenslange tronkstraf gebruik om na te dink oor jou dade en mag jy eendag die moed h\u00ea om haar kinders in die o\u00eb te kyk en vergifnis te vra vir jou selfsugtige, sinnelose, wreedaardige dade.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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