Susan Muller se droom om \u2019n skoonheidskoningin te word, het met \u2019n groot struikelblok begin, maar nou gebruik sy di\u00e9 les om ander te inspireer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Susan, \u2019n student aan die Inscape Kollege in Stellenbosch, het verlede jaar \u2019n video op sosiale media geplaas as deel van haar inskrywing vir Mej. Suid-Afrika. Di\u00e9 video het talle kykers gekry, maar vir die verkeerde redes, vertel sy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cGrootmense \u2013 veral mans \u2013 het in die kommentaar-afdeling baie lelike aanmerkings oor my gemaak. Dit was verskriklik vernederend, om die minste te s\u00ea, maar ek het besluit om die ervaring met boeliegedrag as dryfkrag te gebruik. Indien dit met my, \u2019n grootmens, kan gebeur, wat nog van jongmense wat so baie interaksies aanlyn het?\u201d het Susan haarself gevra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Di\u00e9 derdejaar-bemarking-student het toe besluit om vir die Miss Cosmo South Africa-kompetisie in te skryf en \u2019n organisasie geskep om ander, wat onder boeliegedrag deurloop, te ondersteun. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die Stop-stigting is toe gebore.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Susan help ander op sosiale media deur die stigting en werk om \u2019n ondersteunende aanlyn gemeenskap te skep. Nou beoog sy om praatjies by skole oor boelies te doen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cEk is self op skool geboelie. Dit was so erg dat ek uiteindelik skole geruil het. In my matriekjaar was daar ook \u2019n leerder in my klas wat selfdood gepleeg het. Dit alles het my passie aangewakker. Baie keer besef ons nie eens die gevolge wat boeliegedrag op ons het tot baie later nie,\u201d vertel Susan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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