In watter stadium het dit \u2019n skande geraak vir almal wat nie afgetree is nie, om ni\u00e9 besig te wees nie? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dat jy skuldig voel omdat jy \u2019n middag vir jouself afknyp om iets lekkers te doen?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2019n Mens is geneig om Covid-19 die skuld te gee hiervoor \u2013 alles gebeur mos vanjaar hier in die tweede semester om op te maak vir dit wat nie vroe\u00ebr kon plaasvind nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Covid-19 het vir sommige net \u2019n tydelike ruskans gebied. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tyd om te besin. Vir di\u00e9 werkendes wat die meeste gerus het, het dit in baie gevalle ook gepaard gegaan met die meeste stres oor wat die toekoms inhou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die gejaag na wind kom al veel langer as \u2019n dekade. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die meeste mense sal egter met my saamstem dat die harwar n\u00e1 die inperkings alles nou net \u2019n bietjie verder aangejaag het.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bel jy iemand en kry hom nie in die hande nie, dan dink jy: Hy of sy is selfs nog besiger as ek. Wanneer jy hom of haar uiteindelik in die hande kry, maak jy sommer by voorbaat verskoning dat jy hom bel terwyl hy s\u00f3 besig is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ongeag of jy jou eie onderneming het, vir iemand werk, met kinders heen en weer skool toe ry, buitemuurse aktiwiteite het wat iewers in die dolle gejaag ingepas moet word, kos wat teen die spoed van wit lig berei moet word, iewers nog tyd moet maak vir oefening en helaas seker moet maak dat huiswerk gedoen word voordat die kinders van pure moegheid aan die slaap raak. . . daar is genoeg om ons aan die jaag te hou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Naweke is nie veel beter nie: dis sport en gesellighede en markte en kampe en huiswerk (vir ouers \u00e9n skoolhuiswerk vir kinders) en inkopies en beplanning en \u2019n nimmereindigende lys doendinge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Wanneer jy jou weer kry, is dit Maandag en is jy al klaar weer agter met die werk wat ophoop en \u2019n string inskrywings in jou dagboek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u2019n Lewe wat s\u00f3 vol is, vra beslis \u2019n ruskans. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die probleem is dat wanneer die ruskans aanbreek \u2013 Saterdagaand saam met vriende of Sondag saam met die familie \u2013 is jy so gewoond aan alles wat gedoen moet word, dat jy net aanhou: aanhou kosmaak, seker maak dat almal lekker kuier, bekommerd is oor die vleis wat nie reg gaar word nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Selfs dit is nie rus nie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rus is wanneer jy jou kop kan kry om nie heeltyd planne te maak nie. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Wanneer jy jouself kry om die bloeisels te si\u00e9n, die lekker warm lenteson op jou lyf te v\u00f3\u00e9l, die rustigheid deur jou te laat vloei as die son bloedrooi en pragtig in die weste sak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ons moet almal \u2019n bietjie meer vir onsself omgee. \u2019n Bietjie minder omgee of ander mense dink jy doen ni\u00e9 genoeg nie en net \u2019n slag asemhaal. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vir jouself. Vir die mense om jou. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
As jy hard gewerk het, rus sonder om skuldig te voel. Jy verdien dit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Die lewer<\/span> gaan immers nie oor wat jy alles bereik nie, maar die mense in wie se lewe jy \u2019n verskil gemaak het.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" In watter stadium het dit \u2019n skande geraak vir almal wat nie afgetree is nie, om ni\u00e9 besig te wees 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